Topic: How to apologize your boyfriend in a text
July 20, 2019 / By Benny Question:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, we were really happy and only had minor arguments over significant things. When he found i was pregnant (I'm 18, was 17 at the time) and i know its a really silly thing but we were responsible, we hadn't even noticed our contraception had failed. Anyway when he found out, at first all he said to me was "are you sure" and i said yes and he said nothing and stormed off. I was really worried and then i got a text threw saying im sorry i need time to get my head around it. So i left it and from then on he was great. Coming to scans with me, getting excited over being a dad. ETC. He couldn't stop apologizing for acting the way he did. Got me to move in with him. He lives with only his dad who is great with Carse (my son) But anyway once Carson was born for about the first week he was fine and then it started getting complicated. All he wants to do is go out with his friends and drink (hes 20). I said to him i don't mind but i think he needs to start taking responsibility sometimes and spend time with his son. He constantly gets annoyed and says i need to try and handle him myself, this is because i had minor post natal depression and often left the baby with him but i got over it. Ive been expressing i know that hes young and wants to had a life with his friends but he gets angry and says im accusing him of being a bad dad. Which isn't what im trying to do and he thinks im saying hes either constantly with him or not. How do i tell him this isn't what i mean all im saying is, unfortunately we are going to need to become more dedicated to our son without sounding like im disappointed in his fathering. Hes been often treating me, wanting to take me out and always leaves the baby with his dad but i try and say i think its unfair and that we don't need to go out as much as we do, the baby needs us but he feels as if im throwing it in my face. What do you think the problem is? I really love him and i don't want to lose him at all. Thanks.
I always said to him that if he wasnt ready then i would do this by myself and there was no way i was giving up this baby to anyone, he is my son and i couldnt care less what people think of me. But he insisted he was ready, and if hes not so be it but its like he wont make up his mind if he is or not.
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